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Marriage and friends

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Give them space!  This is what our instinct tells us when our 'besties' get married Are we wrong for doing that?  Of course, the newlywed couple needs space to kick-start their marriage and find a balance in their life, and it is important for friends to respect this privacy. However, the mistake the married folks make especially after marriage is believing that they do not need  friends.  "Marry your friend", they say. So, if I married my best friend, do I still need other friends in my life?  My response to this would be a question for you to consider;  Have you had only one friend in your entire life?   If not, do all your previous pals share same viewpoints, mindsets or have they played a similar role in your life?  If you answered no, I hope you are starting to see why you need a friend other than your spouse.  Friends are unique in their ways and play a distinct role in our lives The truth is that your spouse will not always have all of the answers you need; God