Virgin or not?

During my teenage years, I was in a vigil. After the prayers, the man of God said, "A virgin should pray for us" And he was like, don't try it if you're not a virgin lest you receive a curse. 

You guessed right. The church was silent. I don't want to tell you what happened after😂

Now that I think of that day, I'm not in the position to say he was right or wrong to do that. All I can say is "Ko necesstri, my brother"😅

So the thing is, I am a Christian and an advocate of sexual purity. But, that doesn't or shouldn't put us in the position of a judge over others who are not.

I remember reading an article by a colleague, Olojugba Damilola, (I think I'll get the link and put it in the comment section) she wrote that a lot of virgins are not actually virgins per se, some keep that place down there (lol) undefiled while satisfying their urges in other ways (porn, masturbation etc) 

My conclusion is, if you're a virgin, thank God for your life o, it's very good, keep yourself for that lucky man.

If you're not, don't kill yourself, that doesn't stop you from pursuing sexual purity if you want to. 

No judgement, no criticism, that's what I stand for. 

Yours always,

Ololade Ruth Oluwatumininu. 

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